So, I will warn you now. This blog will be a bit more adult oriented than my previous ones. That's right, I'm gonna get down and dirty. Ok, not really, but it sounded good.
This weekend, the three of us accomplished something that we have only ever done once before. Something that is tough for even most couples to accomplish much less a triad. The thing that you strive for as a couple because it's so elusive, but when you achieve it, it's momentous. That's right, the simultaneous orgasm. LOL
You all know that you've tried it numerous times. That's not to say that you and your partner(s) don't achieve orgasm in the same "session". I'm talking about the rare occasions when you can both climax at the exact same moment in time. When the stars align and all is right in the world. Every animal everywhere stops and listens. It's as if the world takes a collective gasp, and then releases. Yeah, it's that intense.
Now, imagine how difficult that is with two people, let alone three. That's right, you need the stars to align and all that other shit to happen for three individuals. Can you imagine how hard that is? As I've said, this is something that we've only ever done once before. Once in the 5 years off and on that we all slept together. HOLY SHIT! Well, the stars aligned and yeah, all that other shit too this passed weekend and it happened. It was amazing. Absolutely amazing.
Anyway, I hope that everyone that reads this enjoys the pleasures of this phenomena as often as possible. This has been a pleasure and I look forward to any comment that you leave. Please, please do! Have a wonderful day all!
Monday, June 29, 2009
Saturday, June 27, 2009
11 Years
Today marks the 11 year anniversary that wife D and I started dating. I'm 30 years old. That's right, I've been with my wife since I was 19 years old. WOW. That's one of those things, that you know, but you sorta "realize" it better when you see it written down like that.
11 years ago at 12:30am while we were sitting on the couch at her old job, I asked her to be my gf. LOL I would have given her my letter jacket if I'd had one. LOL It was just that cheesy. That was a long time ago, and it makes me realize just how much my wife and I have been through. So many ups and downs, twists and turns. I couldn't think of a better person to have spent those last 11 years with.
I knew from the moment I first saw her in person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her. There really was no doubt about that in my mind. I remember when I first saw her, I literally thought to myself...I can get rid of the little black book...LOL Turns out I should have kept it, but only so that the two of us could share it. LOL
See, that's just how my relationship with wife D is. It's not all gushy romantic all the time. We're more about humor and the absolute FACT that we're meant to be together. We both know this like we know we need the air to breath. It just IS, you know? That's why, no matter how big the argument, no matter how many times the bags have been packed, I've always known that we'd get through it. That we'd work it out because without her, there is no me. No, I'm not being gushy (ok, maybe a little) I'm just stating facts. I'm destined to be with her, like Hancock and Mary. We were built as a pair, with an uncanny ability. To love others. Enter, Lori, and wife M...but they are for other blogs.
To wife D, who I know reads this. I love you so very much and I thank you for each day that we've spent together. They have enriched my life like no other way possible and I'm so thankful to have those cherished memories. I love you now and forever. :)
11 years ago at 12:30am while we were sitting on the couch at her old job, I asked her to be my gf. LOL I would have given her my letter jacket if I'd had one. LOL It was just that cheesy. That was a long time ago, and it makes me realize just how much my wife and I have been through. So many ups and downs, twists and turns. I couldn't think of a better person to have spent those last 11 years with.
I knew from the moment I first saw her in person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her. There really was no doubt about that in my mind. I remember when I first saw her, I literally thought to myself...I can get rid of the little black book...LOL Turns out I should have kept it, but only so that the two of us could share it. LOL
See, that's just how my relationship with wife D is. It's not all gushy romantic all the time. We're more about humor and the absolute FACT that we're meant to be together. We both know this like we know we need the air to breath. It just IS, you know? That's why, no matter how big the argument, no matter how many times the bags have been packed, I've always known that we'd get through it. That we'd work it out because without her, there is no me. No, I'm not being gushy (ok, maybe a little) I'm just stating facts. I'm destined to be with her, like Hancock and Mary. We were built as a pair, with an uncanny ability. To love others. Enter, Lori, and wife M...but they are for other blogs.
To wife D, who I know reads this. I love you so very much and I thank you for each day that we've spent together. They have enriched my life like no other way possible and I'm so thankful to have those cherished memories. I love you now and forever. :)
Friday, June 26, 2009
Thursday, June 25, 2009
I like dreams... :-D
I was sitting there waiting and watching and all of a sudden there you were. You took my breath away instantly. I think I even stopped breathing in my sleep. :) We sat, talked, laughed and had a great time. I don't remember the conversation, but I remember smiling the entire time. I remember thinking, this is too good to be true. That was the dinner portion of the dream.
There was a dessert portion as well. I won't go into details as it was some pretty intense stuff. :-D Just know that I woke up smiling and with... Well, I'm sure you can figure out with what.
That's all for now.
There was a dessert portion as well. I won't go into details as it was some pretty intense stuff. :-D Just know that I woke up smiling and with... Well, I'm sure you can figure out with what.
That's all for now.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Have you ever?
Have you ever needed to say something but you can't? Have you ever wanted to say something, but you can't? There's just no way around it, you just can't say anything.
This is something that applies to so many different situations. There are times when your family says or does something that you absolutely disagree with or even detest. Yet, you know that you have to keep your mouth shut to keep the peace in the family. No matter how much you want to tell that person, are you fucking serious? Did you really just say that? They say or do things that make you want to spit in their faces. You know that you can't do that.
How about the friend that you have that you just can't really talk to. They're great and you do care about them, but you just can't open up completely to them. You want to, they want to, but for whatever reason it just can't happen that way.
Sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut. It's amazing what you learn as you get older and experience more in life. Getting older isn't so bad after all. :)
This is something that applies to so many different situations. There are times when your family says or does something that you absolutely disagree with or even detest. Yet, you know that you have to keep your mouth shut to keep the peace in the family. No matter how much you want to tell that person, are you fucking serious? Did you really just say that? They say or do things that make you want to spit in their faces. You know that you can't do that.
How about the friend that you have that you just can't really talk to. They're great and you do care about them, but you just can't open up completely to them. You want to, they want to, but for whatever reason it just can't happen that way.
Sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut. It's amazing what you learn as you get older and experience more in life. Getting older isn't so bad after all. :)
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Lucky...
So talk about lucky. Yesterday while on the 'puter a friend of mine posted that he had some extra Paramour/No Doubt tickets for sale. This was the same concert that wife M was ditched for by wife D's cousin.
They're not the best seats in the house, but at least wife M gets to go see her favorite band of all time. She told me yesterday that the first CD she ever bought was a No Doubt CD. Wife D and I are both thrilled that she's getting to go and experience them in concert. We obviously love wife M tremendously and want to see that she's happy.
The other perk is that wife D and I celebrate 11 years of being together on Saturday. So, now everyone can be happy because wife D and I can have some alone time, which wife M was very adamant we get. I now there are people out there that don't understand my lifestyle, but when you see or hear things like that doesn't it make you see things a little clearer?? I mean I have two people that love and care about me and I'm blessed to share my love with two amazing women. How is that wrong?
They're not the best seats in the house, but at least wife M gets to go see her favorite band of all time. She told me yesterday that the first CD she ever bought was a No Doubt CD. Wife D and I are both thrilled that she's getting to go and experience them in concert. We obviously love wife M tremendously and want to see that she's happy.
The other perk is that wife D and I celebrate 11 years of being together on Saturday. So, now everyone can be happy because wife D and I can have some alone time, which wife M was very adamant we get. I now there are people out there that don't understand my lifestyle, but when you see or hear things like that doesn't it make you see things a little clearer?? I mean I have two people that love and care about me and I'm blessed to share my love with two amazing women. How is that wrong?
Monday, June 22, 2009
So listen to this shit...
Man, let me tell you how fucked up my wife's family is. Let me start at the beginning. Plans were made between wife M and some of wife D's family members. Basically wife M was going to hang out with wife D's cousin for her birthday at a bar going to see a cover band that they both liked. Well, wife M was informed that her plans were cancelled because tickets were bought for the cousin's bday. The tickets were for a concert that wife M actually wanted to go to, and didn't say anything because of the plans that she already had with "family".
Now I'm in no way upset that the tickets were bought. It's a great opportunity and one that I absolutely would have taken if I had the chance. What I'm upset about is that no option was offered to wife M to see if she wanted to go. It was simply a "hey I gotta cancel plans because I got tickets to this great concert. Sorry". Yeah, that was the gist of the conversation.
Fast forward to Sunday, same family. Wife D calls her dad to wish him a happy father's day. He can't talk because he's driving. Hmmmm, can't grab the phone for a sec and talk to your daughter? Your only daughter? Wait, it gets better. The new wife informs wife D that they were on their way to dinner with my brother in law and his wife. We knew nothing of this dinner. So that means that neither father nor son thought about my wife and including her in the father's day dinner. Wow!
Is it any wonder that I really don't like most anyone in my wife's family? I mean, this isn't the first time that they've done stupid shit like this. I've held my tongue for 11 years and will continue to do so as that's what is being asked of me. Glad I have this as an outlet.
I just don't understand how they can think that those actions were ok. I mean we're not angels either I know that. There are a lot of times when we enjoy spending time with just the three of us. Maybe these people have been told no so many times that they've just given up asking. Who knows, but I do know that I'm done. I have asked wife M to not make plans with that part of the family anymore, and I've told wife D, that even though it's her brother and father, she needs to be done with them. They treat her like shit and don't take her feelings into consideration.
That's that!
Now I'm in no way upset that the tickets were bought. It's a great opportunity and one that I absolutely would have taken if I had the chance. What I'm upset about is that no option was offered to wife M to see if she wanted to go. It was simply a "hey I gotta cancel plans because I got tickets to this great concert. Sorry". Yeah, that was the gist of the conversation.
Fast forward to Sunday, same family. Wife D calls her dad to wish him a happy father's day. He can't talk because he's driving. Hmmmm, can't grab the phone for a sec and talk to your daughter? Your only daughter? Wait, it gets better. The new wife informs wife D that they were on their way to dinner with my brother in law and his wife. We knew nothing of this dinner. So that means that neither father nor son thought about my wife and including her in the father's day dinner. Wow!
Is it any wonder that I really don't like most anyone in my wife's family? I mean, this isn't the first time that they've done stupid shit like this. I've held my tongue for 11 years and will continue to do so as that's what is being asked of me. Glad I have this as an outlet.
I just don't understand how they can think that those actions were ok. I mean we're not angels either I know that. There are a lot of times when we enjoy spending time with just the three of us. Maybe these people have been told no so many times that they've just given up asking. Who knows, but I do know that I'm done. I have asked wife M to not make plans with that part of the family anymore, and I've told wife D, that even though it's her brother and father, she needs to be done with them. They treat her like shit and don't take her feelings into consideration.
That's that!
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