How it all began

So this post is exactly as the title implies. How this all started. Here goes...

11 years ago I was 19 years old and had just gotten an AOL account. That's right. It was AOL 3.0. Used to get home from school and have to sign on right away. This was, ofcourse, in hopes that you'd have a connection by the time you got back downstairs from taking a shower, changing clothes, and making a snack. Ahhhh AOL back in the day was great wasn't it??

Anyway, I got this AOL account because a friend of mine introduced me to the world of online chatting. I would sit on her couch for HOURS and talk to people online. I thought it was the neatest thing since sliced bread. Now, this was also where I first learned that there were other guys out there like me. What do I mean?? Read on and find out.

That's right, there were other guys out there that preferred big women. (We'll save this topic for another day) HOLY SH*T!! Up until this point, I'd always known that I liked thicker women, but I was alone in this so I thought I was some sort of freak. (Course I turned into a different kind of freak later on in life...now doesn't that just make you want to keep coming back for more??) Anyway, I found a whole community of people who were large and ok with that. What a wonderful world this internet was turning out to be.

I digress. So, I take my first credit card, and tell my mom that I'm signing up for an AOL account. Told her that I was paying for it, so there should be no issue. Luckily for me. There wasn't. A little while later, I was surfing the net in the privacy of my basement. (I'm sure plenty of you are snickering thinking that's where the pervert that is Danny was born. Well, you're right...hehe) First screen name created and ever used...DChef98.

Why that name? Well, my first name is Danny. At that time I was in culinary school. And it was 1998. Creative right?? Hey, we aren't all creative dynamo's!!

Damn those tangents. So I created this screen name and started my journey into the world wide web. A few days later my world was turned upside down. Course that was just the first of many times that happened to me in my life.

Why was my life turned upside down?? Because of Nubs75. That screen name started everything. That's right. That was the name that I first met my now wife under. Nothing spectacular about the name right? Unless you're me. See, to me, when I saw nubs, the first thing I thought of was BOOBS!! Ok, so I was a perv before the net. It did make me worse. I SWEAR!!

Anyway, back at the ranch. So I come across Nubs75. I send her a message and we start talking. I will not tell a lie. I don't remember many of those early conversations (cough420cough), but I remember that there was something about her. I guess you could say that she had me from hello. :) I knew she was something special, I just had no idea how special she would turn out to be.

Course, I should have known something was up. Why?? Well she's gotta be something else if you say to your friends...Hey guys...it's just about midnight. I need to make sure I'm home cause that's when Donna'll be online. That's right, I had a self imposed curfew. LOL Not because I was scared of the dark, but because I needed to make sure I was home to greet Donna when she got home from work. No we didn't live together at that point. I greeted her, by being signed on and in her buddy box when she got home from work. There were many nights where I'd be signing off as the sun was coming up.

Intrigued? I hope so! That's all for now, but make sure you're back tomorrow for more!

The beginning

So this is the first blog in what I hope turns into something beneficial for myself, as well as others. Delusions of grandeur?? We'll see.

What is this blog about? My life. Plain and simple. What's so special about my life? Well, I guess if you keep reading you'll find out huh?? :)

Some of you reading this may know me and why life is so intriguing. Other's are reading the title and saying, What the hell is this guy talking about?? I'm really a simple man, nothing extraordinary. Just me, my wife, and our gf. *GASP* And the plot thickens...

That's right folks. I'm legally married to my wife Donna for 6 years and we have a live in girlfriend by the name of Amanda. I guess this blog is going to be about our life, the ups and downs; the good and the bad. Believe me kids, it's an interesting set up. I'm going to let you all into our house. The inner workings. Some may be curious, some may be absolutely disgusted. That's the point of blogs though isn't it? Get people thinking. Let others express themselves. I think this should be fun. Hope you think so too. :)

I'll be honest. I'm not sure how this is going to work just yet. I guess I could start at the very beginning and go over the last 11 years that Donna and I have been in this lifestyle. How it all started, what inspired us. Course, I couldn't give you all that in one post. Helluva long post. Gonna have to be a slow process. Slow and steady wins the race. Or at least that's what I'm told. I hope that some of you will be interested enough to read, and to join me on my journey.

What journey?? Great question. Honestly, I'm not sure what my final destination is going to be. I can guarantee this though. It's gonna be a HELLUVA ride. I do hope you enjoy your time with me and I look forward to your comments. At first I thought about making sure that I mention that I will not tolerate negative posts. Then I thought about the topic I'm discussing. Did I really think I wouldn't get negative feedback?? What the deuce was I thinking?? Guess we'll just have to play it by ear and see how this works out huh??

Thanks for reading, and I promise folks. Keep coming back, you won't be dissapointed.